Separation

We get plenty of separations in our live. It started when we are separated from our mother at birth. It ended when we leave the world's connection and depart into the next one. It is always sad when separation occurs. Some people get through it easily. Some others never forgets. Some even throw away their lives. It is important that we realize what is "separation".

Separation occurs when love ones departs into the next world. It is unimaginably sad. The memory will linger on for life. However, being sad does not bring back the departed. Also, the departed may not want you to be sad. They probably want you to live on and be strong. It will sadden their heart if they know that you are no longer yourself since their departure.

Chances of us being ditched by the opposite sex is high. This type of separation is most painful when you already given all your heart to the other person. It is even sadder when both still love each other but due to circumstances when both have to separate. Think of it this way, if separation is inevitable then you must be strong to accept it. At least you know that the other person still loves you. Loving each other does not means staying together. The other party may be sad if you do not live on as before.

Obviously, there are separations that occur between two person whereby the other person ditches you because they love some one else. It is still sad to be separated. It is simply wrong to waste your future live because they don't love you anymore. They probably don't even bother whether you throw away your life. Therefore, why do stupid things? Wasting your life because of someone who don't love you is simply not correct. Would you die for a stranger? Then why do you bother about some one who don't like you anymore?

The last type of separation occurs when you ditch the other person. It may break your heart to do it. Since you are the one that does the ditching, you need to be strong to live on. You made the decision then why behave as if you are the hurt party?

Separation is always sad. The memory will lingers on. One does no live on memory alone. There are still many other connections that you will have. If you are down, you will make even more people sad. Pull yourself up and live on. The sadness will lingers on but in time, it simply fades away. You may not forget the separation but you will accept it and live on.